#and if those moots were game id love to have an organisable group chat for us all!

[bienmoreau]

To the very best of my ability I wouldn't let call-outs/witch-hunts/bullying happen in the server! And there would be consequences if someone were to try.

I'm a firm believer in staying tf out of other people's business in fandom. And that includes what they might enjoy/ship/read in other fandoms. But if people can't be civil when discussing mutual interests/the fandom we have in common then I wouldn't want them in the server. I would hope for the server to be space where we can talk about the show and the characters and explore the good and the bad of them all. If we can't be respectful of each other and of others opinions then it's not going to be a good conversation. (I'm thinking for example the person that started commenting on the post abt if seonho had a funeral. It was unnecessarily negative and combative and absolutely nothing to do with the conversation that was being had.) Shitting on a character others are enjoying discussing would get a warning and if it continued to happen the person would be kicked. Outright aggression or hating wouldn't even get a warning. Especially if it's aimed at the other members!

I know that not all of my moots are moots with each other (Sea I was actually thinking about you with this when I was making the first post) but we all share a common interest. If there's anyone that would be uncomfortable joining because of another user present then ofc you look after yourselves in making the decision to do so or not. But I would only involve myself in these areas if it was immediately relevant to and present in the server. If another member is making the server hostile in any way. On either side of a disagreement between individuals. The one that is bringing it into the server, that is trying to make it other people's business or issue to resolve or take sides on, that person will be asked to leave the server.

I don't understand why in fandom these days so many people seem to struggle with the idea that we will be sharing interests/fandom spaces with people we don't agree with on every aspect of life or even merely like very much. My intention for the server is for it to be about mctna. Nothing else.

I would hope for it to be a positive, encouraging and interactive space for us to discuss things we find interesting about the show. But it's also not going to be a big public group. In my head it never would be. I would hope that the majority of the people I have met and talked about mctna on here with would be able to hold their own boundaries about what is the right choice for them and respect the intentions of the server.

For example. I personally don't like bang won. I have very little interest in discussing him in his own right/for his own sake. But I would still make a channel for him in the character discussions so others can. I would then simply mute this channel. I don't need to engage with it. For me it's as simple as that. If someone joins who hates a character or a ship or whatever that is being discussed it is their responsibility to keep away from that discussion. And to do so without making it other people's problem. Especially those who do enjoy discussing said character or ship.

I wasn't planning to add specific 'negative' channels for topics since I tend to go with "got nothing nice to say, say nothing" (ofc I don't actually mean 'nice' here necessarilly. I just have no time for hate for hates sake) in fandom it just makes for a better time in my experience. But if it ends up seeming like the best way to go that would be an option for sure.

As I said I don't imagine this being a very big group so I kinda think we can kinda figure out the best way forward together. Just as long as everyone takes responsibility for themselves and interacts in a mature and respectful way!

Kinda considering making a mctna moots discord cause I miss talking abt the show but I also increasingly struggle with following/engaging on here in the way I want to most and feel like I miss a lot of conversations when they're actually happening...idk? And I'd definitely limit numbers cause I just stop looking at the huge servers I'm in but I was looking at one I'm in for a project and thinking how much I like it there...

I'm kinda just thinking out-loud here but also if I treat this as an interest check just maybe let me know if this would be something you'd like to join?